There is a scrap metal yard opposite our house, owned by a Muslim family who live behind the ‘yard’. Most of the time, there are around 20 men working there during the day, banging pieces of metal which will be turned into large cooking cauldrons. The area is littered with old cars, old car parts and anything else that is made of metal and could be used again.
When we got home from our weekly prayer meeting last Wednesday, we noticed that the scrap metal had all been cleared away to one corner, and some marquees were being set up. There were some people sitting on the ground hacking into a meat carcass, which was covered in flies. We asked our guard what was going on, and he said that a wedding was taking place there the next day, with five couples getting married at the same time.
We went to bed to the sounds of earplug penetrating African techno music, which
didn’t stop until around 4am. I made some enquiries with the neighbours about how long a Muslim wedding usually lasted. “One week,” I was told.
By 5pm the next day, the end of our street (an intersection, not a
cul-
de-sac) was completely blocked off as people crowded around the marquees for the entertainment. This consisted of a man ‘singing’ into a microphone, while two other guys chanted into the other mic. It sounded like the Muslim call to prayer, but much louder, and the guy
didn’t take a break for seven hours. (Or if he did the changeover was so slick you
couldn’t even tell.)
While the man in the middle of the circle did his song – he was exalting the five bridegrooms (we were told) – two guys sat on the ground drumming calabashes. The little girls we often see playing hopscotch outside our place were dancing in the circle, while the crowd clapped. The girls, and the rest of their family members, were all dressed in outfits made from the same fabric. At weddings here in
Burkina, the family of the groom chooses a special ‘wedding cloth’ that everyone buys to get their outfit made for the special occasion.
I watched the proceedings for a while, with our young neighbour giving me a running commentary. The excitement of the crowd increased when some of the brides arrived. Their ‘bridal car’ was an old delivery van, preceded by several men speeding up and down the street on their
motos, honking their horns and whooping. While everyone crowded around, two of the veiled brides got out of the car and were spirited off inside the compound – perhaps to meet with their grooms in private.
That night, I ended up sleeping at a friend’s place nearby, while Jon stayed at home because he
didn’t want to leave the house when there were so many people hanging around. We do have a night guard, but we figured he would probably join in the celebrations instead of watching our house. Jon managed to get to sleep around 1am, only to be woken up by the
motos racing around the streets honking their horns until the early hours of the morning.
Cathlin